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February 16, 2005, 02:55 PM
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Real Love: before Marriage? Or After Marriage?
What is real love?
Love of Husband and wife?
Or "Bhalobasha" of non-married "Premik-Premika" like Bollywood/Talywood movies?
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February 16, 2005, 02:58 PM
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I view real love as the love of husband and wife.
I consider pre-marital love is love without responsibility and is more like a "crush" on some one.
Real love is when there is responsibility, care, tolerance and sacrifice.
[Updated... to "crush" ]
Edited on, February 16, 2005, 8:22 PM GMT, by dawah.tabligh.
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February 16, 2005, 02:59 PM
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I loved a girl long time ago. I think I still have feelings for her but I can't do anything. I never fall in love with anyone else after that. I am not married so I don't know what is love like between husband and wife. So I can't make any comment.
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February 16, 2005, 03:11 PM
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Quote:
Originally posted by TigerFan
I am not married so I don't know what is love like between husband and wife. So I can't make any comment.
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I am sorry that you are not married :P
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February 16, 2005, 03:21 PM
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Quote:
Originally posted by dawah.tabligh
I view real love as the love of husband and wife.
I consider pre-marital love is love without responsibility and is more like a "crash" on some one.
Real love is when there is responsibility, care, tolerance and sacrifice.
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The word is "crush", not "crash"
Both can be real love. But none of them are "crush" free love.
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February 16, 2005, 03:49 PM
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dawah.tabligh: why are u asking questions that u already know the answers of??
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February 16, 2005, 03:50 PM
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he doesn't need answer, he wants to know what we think.
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February 16, 2005, 03:51 PM
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Originally posted by Spitfire_x86
he doesn't need answer, he wants to know what we think.
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Correct. I want to know how you guys view this "LOVE" thingy.
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February 16, 2005, 04:04 PM
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Originally posted by Spitfire_x86
he doesn't need answer, he wants to know what we think.
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no he doesn't..
actually.... he knows that(wht we think) too!
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February 16, 2005, 04:11 PM
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Originally posted by crickethorizonno he doesn't..
actually.... he knows that(wht we think) too!
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I really do not know what u think
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February 16, 2005, 04:16 PM
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Quote:
Originally posted by dawah.tabligh
What is real love?
Love of Husband and wife?
Or "Bhalobasha" of non-married "Premik-Premika" like Bollywood/Talywood movies?
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It does not has to be b/w husband and wife. It can happen before marriage, but only when you stick to that one person for the rest of your life. Eventually you will marry that person. You can not make someone love a particular person, I believe Allah is the one who creates this love in our heart for someone. It is good to get married earlier if you fall in love.
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February 16, 2005, 04:25 PM
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Quote:
Originally posted by ehsan
I believe Allah is the one who creates this love in our heart for someone.
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100% agree
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It is good to get married earlier if you fall in love.
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Also very true. Marriage is very simple, needs two muslim male witness or 1 muslim mate witness and 2 female muslim witness, and u say "accept" or "kabul" and fix a "mohar" and you are Husband and wife...
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February 17, 2005, 04:08 AM
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we should all make love not war
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February 17, 2005, 04:12 AM
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Quote:
Originally posted by TigerFan
I loved a girl long time ago. I think I still have feelings for her but I can't do anything. I never fall in love with anyone else after that. I am not married so I don't know what is love like between husband and wife. So I can't make any comment.
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i fell for a girl too long time ago....
but i dont think its any different to the love between husband and wife......
and it too depends on where you live....
in western countries, the love between husbands and wives is no more than the love between boyfriend-girlfriend...
hope i am correct...
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February 17, 2005, 08:25 AM
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It depends upon one thing. Like if u got crash... i mean "shakka"
you might say real love btn wife & husband. If you are not then u might say before marriage is real love.
** still bechlor der jonno pojorjo
** bechlor only
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February 17, 2005, 09:16 AM
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marry some one.. then love her/him
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February 17, 2005, 09:26 AM
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Love, like everything else, is overrated.
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February 17, 2005, 09:41 AM
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Heard from someone, love is nothing but Loss Of Valuable Energy. BTW, what marriage has to do with love?
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February 17, 2005, 12:38 PM
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Quote:
Originally posted by chinaman
love is nothing but Loss Of Valuable Energy.
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I think he was referring to a different kind of love.. one that's NOT so unfathomable (love making) :p And you had to hear that from someone?? - don't you have heart of your own?
Edited on, February 17, 2005, 11:05 PM GMT, by Orpheus.
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February 17, 2005, 04:28 PM
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because you love a person so much that you finally want to be with that person day night, share the rest of life together, so go and marry that person and keep loving to the max as long as love exists.
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February 17, 2005, 04:42 PM
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Love is what animals have for their off-springs until they start to think that they know too much.
Everything else are various combinations of Libido, Brain-wash, Following the crowd and Selfishness.
Marriage is a contract that different people impose different meaning on.
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February 17, 2005, 06:03 PM
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Quote:
Originally posted by pagol-chagol
Love is what animals have for their off-springs .....
Everything else are various combinations of.....Selfishness.
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interesting point... somewhat agreed with the edited quote. That's animal behavior in short
You love (do whatever for the well being of) the person that you can associate your self with the most. Your mom, dad, siblings, children etc.
One of the main reason for marriage is raising a family of YOUR OWN. Since both the husband and wife benefit from it, there is a confluence of interest. In that case, I would say - "love" between husband and wife is greater than the bond of premik premika. Both premik premika's mutual interest is self satisfaction for the time being.
anyways, back to studies..... topic too big for me to handle now
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February 17, 2005, 06:56 PM
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real love starts after marridge, when u see another beautiful girl
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February 17, 2005, 10:58 PM
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I think dawah.tabligh has joined this forum with a mission!!!!
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February 17, 2005, 11:07 PM
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Quote:
Originally posted by AgentSmith
real love starts after marridge, when u see another beautiful girl
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Easily the quote of the month....
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