Real Love: before Marriage? Or After Marriage?

[tiger_man]

Originally posted by chinaman
Heard from someone, love is nothing but Loss Of Valuable Energy. BTW, what marriage has to do with love?

[tiger_man]

Originally posted by tiger_man

everything.......a marrige without love is likely to end up in drain....i mean divorce

[Tehsin]

Love is definitely overrated. It's still good and I love the feeling of being in love. Oh, it's also a test of patience, it's commitment, companionship, it usually starts of as a crush or arranged. There's a lot of work that goes into a loving relationship and only a fool (sorry) would believe that true love does not require any work at all (unless one of them has no self respect, is willing to bend over backwards for their love and doesn't even realize it).

I love the hindi movie love tho. Dekhte na dekhtei prem.

[chinaman]

Originally posted by tiger_man
everything.......a marrige without love is likely to end up in drain....i mean divorce

Hahaha, young man, Hoimonti mara jai kintu Hoimontir shoshur-shashuri beche thake bochorer por bochor.

[Ehsan]

Originally posted by chinaman
Hahaha, young man, Hoimonti mara jai kintu Hoimontir shoshur-shashuri beche thake bochorer por bochor.

What's Hoimonti?

[Ahmed_B]

so... as dawah.tabligh asks.. it has to be either before marriage or after.

why can't it be love before marriage and after too??

If I fall in love before marriage.. where will the love go after I get married, even if to the same girl!?!

And if I click the 'After Marriage' button... what will I do when I am not married and I find someone likable and I have feelings about her? Do I run away and find a bride because I should love 'After Marriage'??

Maan...I'm gettin very confused!
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[Spitfire_x86]

Originally posted by ehsan

What's Hoimonti?

"Hoimonti" is a short story (in fact a GREAT one) by Ravindranath Tagore. If you read the story, then things about Hoimonti and his father/mother in-laws will be all clear to you.

[Rubu]

Talking about hoimonti, its been a great surprise for me why everyone takes her as dead. as long as i remember, she closes the door to not see her father at the last paragraph of the story. was that her ghost? i read the story several times trying to figure out why everyone is killing her before her death.

the only explanation i found by someone was the word "seeta bishorjon" used about her. well, that phrase can mean a hell lot of things. and if that was end of the story i'd accept, it was somewhere at the 3/4th of the story. and as said before, the last thing she does is to close the door on her father.

can someone really explain to me where does she die?

[Spitfire_x86]

Originally posted by AgentSmith
Talking about hoimonti, its been a great surprise for me why everyone takes her as dead. as long as i remember, she closes the door to not see her father at the last paragraph of the story. was that her ghost? i read the story several times trying to figure out why everyone is killing her before her death.

the only explanation i found by someone was the word "seeta bishorjon" used about her. well, that phrase can mean a hell lot of things. and if that was end of the story i'd accept, it was somewhere at the 3/4th of the story. and as said before, the last thing she does is to close the door on her father.

can someone really explain to me where does she die?

The ending is simple. "Seeta Bishorjon" means Hoimonit died because her husband couldn't take her away from his home by disobeying his parents, though Homonti could've lived if her husband did that.

Hoimonti probably died sometime after the last meeting with his father

[Mahir]

u guys are getting way too cheesy!