Depends on the tournament/series, the progression level of that tournament/series they are playing at and of course the opponent they are facing.
These three factor my emotional roller coaster ride.
For example:
Recent loss in the Asia cup final against Pakistan. I was devastated. A winning match got out of our hand against a much better team in the final.
Recent loss in the T&T tournament. After being in control by taking 5 wickets for 12 runs we ended up losing the match and losing the $50K. It didn't bother me that much but was slightly frustrated.
So it's all relevant